Information that is not known to the Slovak public about the Catholic Church needs to be brought to light . The Catholic Church is a strange sect in the area of sexuality and even prohibits masturbation, contraception, coitus interruptus, prohibits any position other than the missionary position, and prohibits oral sex. The Church threatens the freedom and human rights of the individual and is therefore a criminal organization that must be liquidated.
Friends, if you read this. I have selected excerpts from the website of the Catholic Counseling for Spouses. I would like to point out that what they say there is indeed the official teaching of the Catholic Church. You will be amazed at all the things the church forbids. All the questions there have negative answers, you just need to read the questions. The church is nothing but a strange, weird sect.
http://www.lpp.sk/index.php?option=com_content&view=category&id=16015&Itemid=414
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Even in the counseling center itself, there are extremely controversial questions: the church allows sex only for the purpose of reproduction, hence the following question :
Good day, I would like to ask, if my husband is infertile (one of the consequences of a congenital defect), how is it in this case with sex in marriage? It is evident that it does not serve to conceive a child, but only for pleasure. For this reason, contraception is not accepted – as it deprives sex of its procreative dimension… but what about couples where this dimension is not even present in the first place? Thank you very much for your answer.
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Look how people are enslaved by the church, you can see it from the question.
Is using a condom a (grave) sin?
I am married and we have three children. Is using a condom a sin? (A grave one?) Maybe a little context: My wife is just over 2 months postpartum, and based on observing her mucus and temperatures, we can't seem to get our bearings. Everything is still a bit "disrupted." We are quite afraid of getting pregnant again for various reasons, and that's why we are not "sleeping" together. Before the birth, we also had a bit of a problem, so we couldn't enjoy that pleasure. We want "it" too, but… It's been a long time since we "slept" together, and it's all leading to a kind of nervousness and a feeling of separation (at least that's how I perceive it).
Does the Catholic Church allow contraception in marriage at all? (Under what circumstances?) Of course, let's not discuss any "morning-after pill" and similar abortive methods… that's clear to me. On the other hand, sentences like "children are a blessing from God and we should be open to new life"… or "what kind of husband am I if I can't accept my wife with her fertility" and similar theorizing – I don't really like that. (That seems like a nice theory for engaged couples, but….)
I'm not saying that if we were to have another child, we wouldn't accept it. And maybe in time we'll long for another one. For now, I would like to act responsibly towards the existing children (and my wife) in the current life situation (spatial, health, financial, psychological).
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I would like to ask about coitus interruptus in marriage. Our priest warned us that even in marriage it is a sin and sex should serve exclusively for procreation. My husband and I lived purely until the wedding and always believed that sex should be after the wedding. However, I did not know that coitus interruptus is also a sin. We both accept a baby as a gift from God and we know that even coitus interruptus is not 100% contraception. Therefore, I do not understand why the only recognized method to avoid conceiving a child is sex during infertile days… I cannot accept it myself… so I ask you for advice. Thank you very much in advance for your answer.
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According to Christian ethics, is it wrong if, during a period of abstinence (or at other times), spouses satisfy each other in a way other than intercourse? If it is voluntary and out of love?
Hello, thank you for your trust.
Yes, it is wrong if spouses intentionally achieve satisfaction in climax – in orgasm outside of the marital act. Even if they do so mutually and by mutual agreement, even if they subjectively perceive it as an expression of love, such a method in its essence means mutual masturbation.
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How does Christian marital ethics perceive occasional dominant and submissive fantasies during sexual intercourse, as well as mild sadomasochism (without causing harm), if it suits both spouses after a mutual discussion?
The fact that spouses agree on something does not affect the moral nature of the act.
As I have already written, Catholic sexual ethics does not agree with such an attitude at all.
Why? The essence of the marital act is to be a sincere gift of oneself. Such self-giving is only possible in love.
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My husband and I have been together for 14 years and we have 4 children, who were all born by C-section (unfortunately, there was always some problem during childbirth) – I was very unhappy about it, but I have accepted it as a fact.
Now we are expecting twins… I am in my 8th month and I am going to be hospitalized.
I'm very afraid that I probably wouldn't survive another pregnancy (I'm 35 years old). The doctors recommend sterilization, but I have to agree to it. Even with the 4th child, they looked at me as if I was crazy.
that I'm not getting my tubes tied. We've been practicing the symptothermal method, but we're only human…
I would like to ask you whether, from a moral, religious and health point of view, I have the right to be sterilized?
As far as the health aspect is concerned, it must also be subordinated to the good, to morality.
I understand that your intention is good – you want to be responsible for your health, for your family, for the children that God has already entrusted to you. But the goal itself, nor the intention, is not enough to "sanctify" the means – in this case, direct sterilization. In your case, sterilization would essentially be surgical contraception. And no one in the Church can grant you an "exemption" to use some form of contraception – simply because no one has the competence to determine what is good and what is bad.
My note: imagine that even in this case, the teaching of the Catholic Church says no to sterilization, even though it threatens the woman's life